The Mind Behind Love

Why Do We Fall for People Who Hurt Us? (Emotional Healing Series #5)Have you ever found yourself drawn to someone who made you feel anxious, unworthy, or emotionally drained—yet, you couldn’t walk away? Why do we fall for people who hurt us, over and over again? The answer lies deeper than personal weakness—it’s wired into our emotional history.In this post, Dr. Paul Lee uncovers the hidden psyc..

The Fear of Being Too Much: When Your Emotions Feel Like a Burden (Self-Worth & Attachment Series #4)Have you ever stopped yourself from expressing how you feel because you didn’t want to scare someone away? Do you often feel like your needs, emotions, or thoughts are “too much”? You’re not alone.Many people—especially those with low self-worth or anxious attachment—grow up believing that expres..

Why We Mistake Obsession for Love (Love Psychology Series #4)You check your phone constantly. You replay every conversation. You feel high when they text back and low when they don't. You say it's love—but what if it's not?Obsession can feel like love. It's intense, all-consuming, and emotionally charged. But it's not the same as genuine connection. In this post, Dr. Paul Lee explores why we oft..

Why Emotionally Unavailable People Push Love Away (Emotional Healing Series #4)Love is what we all crave — connection, intimacy, and emotional safety. Yet ironically, some of us run from love the moment it gets too close. We ghost, we self-sabotage, we pull away. Why? This is the paradox of the emotionally unavailable person: they want love deeply, but fear it even more.In this post, Dr. Paul Le..

Why You Feel Unlovable Even in a Loving Relationship (Self-Worth & Attachment Series #3)You’ve finally found someone who treats you well. They’re kind. Present. Emotionally available. And yet… you feel uneasy. Suspicious. Even guilty for being loved. You ask yourself, “Why do I feel unworthy, even when someone genuinely loves me?”This feeling is more common than you think—especially among those ..

Why We Attract People Who Trigger Our Deepest Wounds (Love Psychology Series #3)It’s a cruel irony of love: the people we feel most drawn to are often the ones who bring up the pain we’ve tried hardest to forget. They push our buttons, reopen old wounds, and awaken fears we thought we’d buried. But instead of running, we lean in. We feel “chemistry.” We think, “This must be love.”In this post, D..

Why You Keep Accepting Less Than You Deserve (Self-Worth & Attachment Series #2)Have you ever stayed in a relationship that left you feeling small, unseen, or emotionally drained—yet you couldn’t walk away? You tell yourself, “Maybe this is just how love is,” or “At least I’m not alone.” But deep down, you know something doesn’t feel right. So why do we keep accepting love that falls short of wh..

Why We Chase People Who Don’t Want Us (Love Psychology Series #2)It’s one of the most painful patterns in love: we give our heart to people who don’t seem to want it. We chase after those who pull away, remain emotionally unavailable, or give us just enough to keep us hoping—but never enough to feel secure.Why do we do this? Are we broken? Addicted to pain? Or is something deeper at play—somethi..

Why Saying “I Love You” Is So Hard: The Psychology of Emotional Vulnerability“I love you.” Three simple words, yet for many, they feel heavier than a thousand. Why do some people hesitate, avoid, or even fear saying them? Is it a fear of rejection, a lack of love, or something deeper rooted in the psychology of emotional vulnerability?In this post, Dr. Paul Lee explores the psychological barrier..

When You Don’t Feel Worthy of Real Love (Self-Worth & Attachment Series #1)Have you ever met someone who offered you calm, kind, secure love—yet instead of feeling safe, you felt nervous, suspicious, or even undeserving? Sometimes, the scariest thing isn’t being rejected. It’s being loved in a way we never believed we deserved.In this post, Dr. Paul Lee explores the emotional and psychological r..