The Mind Behind Love

When you're always helping others heal, ask yourself—who's helping you?Have you ever noticed how some people are always drawn to the broken? They enter relationships trying to fix, rescue, or emotionally support someone through their struggles. But deep down, it’s not always about the other person—it’s about avoiding their own inner wounds.The Psychology of the RescuerDistraction from self: Help..

Not everyone who says “I love you” is really saying “I see you.”There’s a confusing dynamic in modern relationships: You meet someone who showers you with attention, praises you, and seems totally into you. But over time, something feels off. You give more and feel less seen. You start to wonder: Do they love me… or just love being loved?What Does “Loving to Be Loved” Look Like?It’s about valida..

It’s not love we’re chasing—it’s the validation we never received.Have you ever found yourself clinging to someone who never fully chose you? You give more, try harder, wait longer—hoping that one day, they’ll return the love you offer. But what if this pattern isn’t about them at all, but about your own beliefs about self-worth?The Deeper Psychology Behind This PatternChildhood wounds: Those wh..

“I'm fine” doesn’t always mean fine. Especially when it’s spoken by the one who never asks for help.In every friend group, family, or team, there’s someone who plays the role of “the strong one.” They comfort others, carry burdens, and never seem to break. But beneath that strength, there often hides a deep exhaustion and unspoken pain that rarely sees the light of day.Why Do Strong People Hide ..

Sometimes, the strongest walls are built by the most wounded hearts.You may have met people who proudly declare, "I don’t need anyone." They appear fiercely independent, seemingly untouched by emotional attachment. But beneath that surface often lies a different truth—a hidden fear of emotional dependence and deep-rooted loneliness. What Causes This Emotional Distance?Past betrayals: Childhood n..

Love should be warm and safe, but for some, it feels like walking into a fire.Have you ever loved someone deeply—only to watch them pull away just when things got serious? This emotional pattern, often called "love avoidance," is more common than we think. And it usually hides a history of emotional pain, attachment anxiety, or deep-rooted self-doubt.Why Love Feels Dangerous to SomeFear of rejec..