The Mind Behind Love

Loving Someone Who’s Not Ready to Love You Back (Emotional Healing Series #6)Sometimes, love feels more like waiting than sharing. You open your heart, offer your time, your care, your presence— and yet, the person you love doesn’t meet you halfway.Loving someone who isn’t ready to love you back can be heartbreaking, confusing, and deeply exhausting. But it’s also an experience many of us go thr..

Why You Struggle to Believe Someone Really Loves You (Self-Worth & Attachment Series #5)They say they love you. They show up. They listen. They care. But deep down, you still wonder: “Do they really mean it?” No matter how much reassurance you receive, a small voice whispers, “You’re not really lovable.”This isn’t because you’re broken. It’s because you’ve learned not to trust love. In this post..

Why We Fall for Potential, Not Reality (Love Psychology Series #5)Have you ever fallen for someone not for who they were, but for who they could become? You saw glimpses of kindness, brilliance, or emotional depth—and believed, “If they just healed, if they just opened up, this could be amazing.” You weren’t wrong. But you also weren’t in love with who they were—you were in love with who they mi..

The Fear of Being Too Much: When Your Emotions Feel Like a Burden (Self-Worth & Attachment Series #4)Have you ever stopped yourself from expressing how you feel because you didn’t want to scare someone away? Do you often feel like your needs, emotions, or thoughts are “too much”? You’re not alone.Many people—especially those with low self-worth or anxious attachment—grow up believing that expres..

Why We Mistake Obsession for Love (Love Psychology Series #4)You check your phone constantly. You replay every conversation. You feel high when they text back and low when they don't. You say it's love—but what if it's not?Obsession can feel like love. It's intense, all-consuming, and emotionally charged. But it's not the same as genuine connection. In this post, Dr. Paul Lee explores why we oft..

Why Emotionally Unavailable People Push Love Away (Emotional Healing Series #4)Love is what we all crave — connection, intimacy, and emotional safety. Yet ironically, some of us run from love the moment it gets too close. We ghost, we self-sabotage, we pull away. Why? This is the paradox of the emotionally unavailable person: they want love deeply, but fear it even more.In this post, Dr. Paul Le..

Why You Feel Unlovable Even in a Loving Relationship (Self-Worth & Attachment Series #3)You’ve finally found someone who treats you well. They’re kind. Present. Emotionally available. And yet… you feel uneasy. Suspicious. Even guilty for being loved. You ask yourself, “Why do I feel unworthy, even when someone genuinely loves me?”This feeling is more common than you think—especially among those ..

Why We Attract People Who Trigger Our Deepest Wounds (Love Psychology Series #3)It’s a cruel irony of love: the people we feel most drawn to are often the ones who bring up the pain we’ve tried hardest to forget. They push our buttons, reopen old wounds, and awaken fears we thought we’d buried. But instead of running, we lean in. We feel “chemistry.” We think, “This must be love.”In this post, D..

Why You Keep Accepting Less Than You Deserve (Self-Worth & Attachment Series #2)Have you ever stayed in a relationship that left you feeling small, unseen, or emotionally drained—yet you couldn’t walk away? You tell yourself, “Maybe this is just how love is,” or “At least I’m not alone.” But deep down, you know something doesn’t feel right. So why do we keep accepting love that falls short of wh..

Why We Chase People Who Don’t Want Us (Love Psychology Series #2)It’s one of the most painful patterns in love: we give our heart to people who don’t seem to want it. We chase after those who pull away, remain emotionally unavailable, or give us just enough to keep us hoping—but never enough to feel secure.Why do we do this? Are we broken? Addicted to pain? Or is something deeper at play—somethi..