The Mind Behind Love

They weren’t consistent, kind, or ready—but you kept hoping they’d become all three.There’s a romantic trap many people fall into: We meet someone who isn’t quite right—but something about them sparks hope. So we stay, invest, and wait. Not for who they are now, but for who they might become. This is what it looks like to fall for potential instead of reality.Why We Romanticize PotentialWe see t..

Self-Worth & Attachment Series – Episode 7: Why You Feel Guilty for Having NeedsYou ask for something small—time, attention, comfort—and immediately feel a wave of guilt. You shrink your voice. You over-explain. You wonder if you're being "too much" for wanting something that others seem to expect so easily.This guilt doesn’t come from weakness—it comes from wounds. In this post, Dr. Paul Lee ex..