The Mind Behind Love

The Loneliness You Feel Even When You're Not Alone (Emotional Healing Series #7)You're sitting next to someone you care about. You're texting friends, surrounded by colleagues, maybe even sharing a bed with a partner. And yet, something inside you feels distant. Disconnected. Lonely.This kind of loneliness isn’t about physical isolation—it’s about emotional disconnection. In this post, Dr. Paul ..

Loving Someone Who’s Not Ready to Love You Back (Emotional Healing Series #6)Sometimes, love feels more like waiting than sharing. You open your heart, offer your time, your care, your presence— and yet, the person you love doesn’t meet you halfway.Loving someone who isn’t ready to love you back can be heartbreaking, confusing, and deeply exhausting. But it’s also an experience many of us go thr..

Why Do We Fall for People Who Hurt Us? (Emotional Healing Series #5)Have you ever found yourself drawn to someone who made you feel anxious, unworthy, or emotionally drained—yet, you couldn’t walk away? Why do we fall for people who hurt us, over and over again? The answer lies deeper than personal weakness—it’s wired into our emotional history.In this post, Dr. Paul Lee uncovers the hidden psyc..

Why Emotionally Unavailable People Push Love Away (Emotional Healing Series #4)Love is what we all crave — connection, intimacy, and emotional safety. Yet ironically, some of us run from love the moment it gets too close. We ghost, we self-sabotage, we pull away. Why? This is the paradox of the emotionally unavailable person: they want love deeply, but fear it even more.In this post, Dr. Paul Le..

Why Saying “I Love You” Is So Hard: The Psychology of Emotional Vulnerability“I love you.” Three simple words, yet for many, they feel heavier than a thousand. Why do some people hesitate, avoid, or even fear saying them? Is it a fear of rejection, a lack of love, or something deeper rooted in the psychology of emotional vulnerability?In this post, Dr. Paul Lee explores the psychological barrier..

Why We Push or Pull in Love: The Psychology of Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Have you ever felt like you're loving too much while the other person seems to be pulling away? Or maybe you find yourself needing space the moment someone gets too close. These confusing patterns aren't random—they're rooted in what psychologists call attachment styles. Understanding them can completely transform how..

Why We Fall in Love: The Psychology Behind Romantic AttractionLove—it makes our hearts race, our minds wander, and our lives feel more vivid. But what if falling in love wasn’t purely magical? What if the feelings we experience during those early moments of connection are deeply rooted in psychology and shaped by patterns we don’t even notice?In this post, Dr. Paul Lee explores the psychology be..