The Mind Behind Love

Do you feel worthy only when you're useful to others?Many people confuse being needed with being loved. On the surface, it may look like compassion or selflessness — always helping, fixing, supporting. But deep down, it’s often rooted in a dangerous belief: “If I’m not needed, I’m not enough.”This pattern usually forms in childhood, especially in environments where love was conditional. If you h..

Self-Worth & Attachment Series – Episode 8: Why You Struggle to Receive Love Without Earning ItThey compliment you. They say they care. They offer love freely—and yet, you feel uncomfortable. You wonder what you did to deserve it… and how long it will last.For those with insecure attachment or low self-worth, receiving love can feel more threatening than rejection. In this post, Dr. Paul Lee unp..