The Mind Behind Love

We don’t fall for what’s good for us—we fall for what feels like home. And sometimes, home was chaos.Have you ever felt instantly connected to someone—like you’ve known them forever? That sense of “familiarity” can feel romantic, even magical. But often, it’s not magic. It’s your nervous system recognizing an emotional pattern from the past. And that pattern isn’t always healthy.Why Familiarity ..

How Childhood Wounds Shape Adult Attraction (Love Psychology Series #1)Have you ever wondered why you’re drawn to people who are emotionally unavailable, unpredictable, or even distant? Often, what we call “our type” isn’t about preference—it’s about programming. Much of our adult attraction is silently shaped by the emotional blueprint we developed in childhood.In this post, Dr. Paul Lee explor..