The Mind Behind Love

Sometimes, the strongest walls are built by the most wounded hearts.You may have met people who proudly declare, "I don’t need anyone." They appear fiercely independent, seemingly untouched by emotional attachment. But beneath that surface often lies a different truth—a hidden fear of emotional dependence and deep-rooted loneliness. What Causes This Emotional Distance?Past betrayals: Childhood n..

Why Emotionally Unavailable People Push Love Away (Emotional Healing Series #4)Love is what we all crave — connection, intimacy, and emotional safety. Yet ironically, some of us run from love the moment it gets too close. We ghost, we self-sabotage, we pull away. Why? This is the paradox of the emotionally unavailable person: they want love deeply, but fear it even more.In this post, Dr. Paul Le..

Why Saying “I Love You” Is So Hard: The Psychology of Emotional Vulnerability“I love you.” Three simple words, yet for many, they feel heavier than a thousand. Why do some people hesitate, avoid, or even fear saying them? Is it a fear of rejection, a lack of love, or something deeper rooted in the psychology of emotional vulnerability?In this post, Dr. Paul Lee explores the psychological barrier..

Why We Push or Pull in Love: The Psychology of Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Have you ever felt like you're loving too much while the other person seems to be pulling away? Or maybe you find yourself needing space the moment someone gets too close. These confusing patterns aren't random—they're rooted in what psychologists call attachment styles. Understanding them can completely transform how..