The Mind Behind Love

Love Psychology Series – Episode 9: Why We Fall for People Who Can’t Love Us BackYou give. You try. You wait. And still, they pull away. You’re left wondering why you keep falling for people who don’t—or won’t—love you back.This post by Dr. Paul Lee explores why we’re drawn to emotionally unavailable people, what it says about our own attachment patterns, and how to begin choosing the love we ac..

When You Settle Because You Don’t Believe You Deserve More (Self-Worth & Attachment Series #6)You stay in the relationship even though you're not truly happy. You tell yourself, “It’s not that bad,” or “Maybe this is all there is.” Deep down, you know you want more—but you’re not sure you believe you can have it.In this post, Dr. Paul Lee explores the psychology behind settling in love, how low ..

Why We Fall for Potential, Not Reality (Love Psychology Series #5)Have you ever fallen for someone not for who they were, but for who they could become? You saw glimpses of kindness, brilliance, or emotional depth—and believed, “If they just healed, if they just opened up, this could be amazing.” You weren’t wrong. But you also weren’t in love with who they were—you were in love with who they mi..